Comments on: How do I get my wife to pay attention to me? http://tochea.com/2009/07/20/how-do-i-get-my-wife-to-pay-attention-to-me/ Online advice for your messed-up life. Mon, 21 May 2012 20:46:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Anonymous http://tochea.com/2009/07/20/how-do-i-get-my-wife-to-pay-attention-to-me/#comment-679 Fri, 13 Jan 2012 20:10:41 +0000 http://tochea.com/?p=338#comment-679 Same Boat here, I have a contracting business, my wife works part time. I wake the kids, make lunches, help with grocery shopping meals, home repair and maint., art in spare time, she pays more attention to our dog than me. We are a blended family so that has been an additional stress… things have been this way for the last 5 or 6 years I guess, intimacy is fantastic but I initiate 100% of the time. I would be happy with a garden variety “hello” when she gets home. The only patterns we can change are our own, but I continue to “hope” we will become closer….

]]> By: Anonymous http://tochea.com/2009/07/20/how-do-i-get-my-wife-to-pay-attention-to-me/#comment-600 Fri, 11 Nov 2011 02:02:48 +0000 http://tochea.com/?p=338#comment-600 Got my hopes up after a marriage seminar…thought she’d start calling me while I am out of town. Nada. When I say something she complains about being too busy. Gets to the point where I want to revert to the teenager in me and just totally ignore her and show her I can do without her (yes, in a nice way). But you know what, I do not think anything will change.

]]> By: Anonymous http://tochea.com/2009/07/20/how-do-i-get-my-wife-to-pay-attention-to-me/#comment-566 Sat, 03 Sep 2011 22:57:37 +0000 http://tochea.com/?p=338#comment-566 Im in the same boat. My wife doesn’t pay attention to me anymore.

]]> By: Sam http://tochea.com/2009/07/20/how-do-i-get-my-wife-to-pay-attention-to-me/#comment-535 Sun, 10 Jul 2011 21:33:21 +0000 http://tochea.com/?p=338#comment-535 All that is interesting about kids, work etc. We are from the UK and I got a job opportunity in India which I took up. The life domestically included a cook, a driver, a cleaner and also we had a maid so my wife did not have to do anything around the house. – But she still does not pay me any attention – how does that work out?

Taken recently to going out with friends more and doing my own thing – probably not the best thing in the world but at least i feel happier.

]]> By: His wife doesn’t pay attention to him…it’s an epidemic, apparently. « To Chea http://tochea.com/2009/07/20/how-do-i-get-my-wife-to-pay-attention-to-me/#comment-306 Thu, 04 Mar 2010 04:40:28 +0000 http://tochea.com/?p=338#comment-306 [...] Posts I need to break up with my hair stylist and I'm scared.How do I get my wife to pay attention to me?I got a beautiful diamond ring that I just don't want.My sister's boyfriend is a douchebag.About To [...]

]]> By: Chea http://tochea.com/2009/07/20/how-do-i-get-my-wife-to-pay-attention-to-me/#comment-270 Wed, 13 Jan 2010 02:22:39 +0000 http://tochea.com/?p=338#comment-270 It kind of sounds like she’s coasting along. Don’t you want to know why? Have you ever thought of asking her? Start a nice, loving conversation in a non-confrontational way, and tell her how much you want to connect with her. Women like that. Hell, all people like that. If she’s like, “I don’t know, whatever, what are you talking about,” then maybe you should just tell her you’re feeling neglected and that you’d like to go see a counselor. If she won’t do that, maybe get some books about improving your marriage and see if she’ll read them with you. If she won’t do that either, maybe you should think about why you want to be married to someone who doesn’t want to work on your marriage.

]]> By: Difr'nt Situation http://tochea.com/2009/07/20/how-do-i-get-my-wife-to-pay-attention-to-me/#comment-262 Sun, 20 Dec 2009 08:27:33 +0000 http://tochea.com/?p=338#comment-262 Ok, substitute the kids (neither of us have or will) for dogs and cats, 2 each. We are both in our 40′s, been married 5 years, and she will have nothing to do with me. Forget sex, I’m talking about flirting, playing, grabbing…. NOTHING! Is she skating along with me just coasting along?

]]> By: His wife won’t pay attention to him, either. I wonder why. « To Chea http://tochea.com/2009/07/20/how-do-i-get-my-wife-to-pay-attention-to-me/#comment-140 Mon, 17 Aug 2009 13:57:21 +0000 http://tochea.com/?p=338#comment-140 [...] Posts How do I get my wife to pay attention to me?How much should I spend on a wedding gift?About To CheaMy sister's boyfriend is a douchebag. Part [...]

]]> By: assistingu1st http://tochea.com/2009/07/20/how-do-i-get-my-wife-to-pay-attention-to-me/#comment-81 Mon, 20 Jul 2009 13:50:15 +0000 http://tochea.com/?p=338#comment-81 Maybe the wife is a little overwhelmed. I know that when I was working a full-time job and came home from work I had to cook and deal with the kids. I was tired and it was all I could do but sit in front of the TV and zonk out. I loved my hubby, but hell I was tired. You know wives number one complaint is that hubbys don’t help around the house. Telling her you will do the dishes will definitely get her attention :) .

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