Monthly Archives: March 2010
I’m the breadwinner and I don’t like it.
When I first married my husband, he was working full-time. After a year, he got laid off and decided to go back to school to finish his bachelor’s degree. It will take him at least another two years, since today … Continue reading
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My coworker is cranky and it’s pissing me off.
My coworker is having a problem with something today. She has been slamming drawers, stomping around, sighing loudly, and drumming her fingers on her desk all morning. I think she’s upset about a work issue. We all get upset about … Continue reading
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How do I know if he’s The One?
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost three months. He’s great and is good for me in the sense that he is a strong support system and guides me. I love being with him and miss him when we are … Continue reading
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My husband told me to lose five pounds. May I kill him?
My husband recently told me that if I lost five pounds, I would be “really hot.” I’m well within a healthy weight range for my height and eat well and exercise regularly. I’m a size six. Should I murder him … Continue reading
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Why did he text instead of call?
What does your gut tell you: I’m in a new relationship. “Doug” said he would call me yesterday. He texted me at 10 o’clock last night to tell me that he was completely swamped with work and that he had … Continue reading
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My friend made my family pray. And we don’t even believe in God.
A few nights ago I had a friend over for dinner, and out of nowhere she grabbed my hand and led my family in prayer. The thing is… we’re atheists. When at her house, I have no problem bowing my … Continue reading
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How do I back out of wedding party duties?
So here is my dilemma. I got asked by one of my friends to be her personal attendant in her wedding which is taking place at the beginning of May. I, of course, accepted. Well, come to find out, I … Continue reading
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How much freedom should a 9-year-old have?
My husband and I disagree about how much freedom our daughter should have. He thinks that our 9-year-old should be able to walk or bike home (half a mile and we do live in a safe neighborhood) from school by … Continue reading
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How do I explain my illness to people without bumming everyone out?
I have an unusual situation, and I was hoping you could help. I normally am fairly adept at advising myself, but am clueless as to how to handle this. Up until about five months ago, I was the operator of … Continue reading
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I can’t pay attention at work because I want to be home with my kids.
I seem to have lost my work mojo. I show up, do the bare minimum, and phone in the rest. How do I get inspired and refocused? I am the breadwinner in my family, and there is no scenario possible … Continue reading
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