My sister and I usually get along, but lately she’s been horrible to me. The last time we talked, she told me I wasn’t a priority in her life right now and that I need to stop being so self-absorbed. So I called and left her a message uninviting her to my birthday party. Was this the right thing to do or the wrong thing?
I hope you’re some sort of genius five-year-old who knows how to use the internet and has her own cell phone. A grown woman calling and taking back a birthday party invitation is just so stupid it makes my head hurt. To answer your question: you did the wrong thing.
It’s possible that you have valid reasons for being angry with each other, but it’s all overshadowed by the fact that you’re acting like a big fat baby and she seems to be furious at you for something you don’t even know you did. So, what you could do is throw your pink princess phone at her back while screaming at her to get out of your room, or make up a horrible nickname for her and tell everyone in school to call her that, or read her diary and tell your mom all the good parts, or wear her favorite shirt and spill chocolate milk all over it and then crumple it in a ball and leave it at the bottom of your locker for three months.
Or you could call her up and say, “I hate fighting with you. Can we please get together and talk this through? I never want anything to come between us.”